Our universal need to forgive
Sunday 24C 17th September 2023
[Matthew 18:21-35]
Fred Shuttleworth came from a large and poor farming family in Alabama. His faith drew him to become a pastor for his African American people, struggling for justice and equality. At Christmas 1953, when the Ku Klux Klan dynamited his family home in Birmingham, Shuttleworth was almost killed. Later, when he and his wife tried to enrol their daughters in a segregated school, they were all savagely beaten by a hostile mob.
For many years Fred bravely led a nonviolent campaign of sit-ins and marches to desegregate Birmingham. They were brutally opposed by its notorious police chief “Bull” O’Connor, whose violent methods, seen on television, brought nation-wide support and a degree of justice for these descendants of slaves.
Shuttleworth lived to be 89. On every occasion when he suffered violence, he forgave those who hurt him, and urged his supporters to forgive too. He had understood Jesus’ answer to Peter’s question: “…how often must I forgive my brother if he wrongs me… seven times?”. He lived the truth that forgiving is not a matter of quantity but of letting our heart become a channel for God’s infinite, forgiving love.
When Matthew’s gospel speaks about forgiving, some details may puzzle us. We might baulk at being told to forgive seventy-by-seven times, but this is typical of the exaggerated language Jesus used to show that forgiving is essential as we work to build the Reign of God.
Jesus is not commanding us to forgive mindlessly. A few verses back he pointed out that we must demand that those who offend against us listen to us, to our witnesses, or to the assembly. Jesus knew that we humans are all deeply connected among ourselves and to every part of the universe. Today, ecology and as quantum physics are showing this in new ways. The same vision of unity is described by mystics and by those who report a Near Death Experience. When we fail to forgive, we are going against this oneness. In our youth, we necessarily develop separately as individual egos or personalities, but this is not our final stage. As we learn to love our family, our partner, or the family of humankind we find that we must “die to self”, and in some mysterious way this prepares us to be joined, after our death, with all others in God.
We may also puzzle over Jesus’ parable of the forgiving and unforgiving king. Does he represent God? His slave – who was probably employed to extort taxes – owes the king an astronomical sum, but pleads and persuades the monarch to cancel the huge debt. However the king later changes his mind and hands the same slave over to be tortured until he has repaid everything. Jesus then concludes by saying: “that is how my heavenly Father will deal with you unless you each forgive…”
This king is not like God. He rules by power and violence, relying on his subjects’ fear. He reigns by extorting taxes, and when he forgives the slave’s debt he actually increases his power by making the slave more deeply dependent than before. When finally he condemns the slave to be tortured, this terrible example increases the king’s power over the rest of his subjects.
The king’s actions are some of the many dramatic warnings found in Matthew’s gospel, which are to be taken seriously but not literally in their details. Matthew shows Jesus telling us that we are responsible for all that we do, and must account for it. But we are not being advised to cut off our hand to avoid stealing, or pluck out an eye to cure lust. When we sin against the community we will not literally be thrown into the stinking, burning rubbish dump called Gehenna, which we translate as “hell”. Nor is any of us an all-good sheep or an all-bad goat. At the end of our life, when we are shown the far-reaching consequences of our selfish actions, of our failing to love, we may be deeply ashamed. But can we believe that the God whom Jesus reveals to us as Unlimited Love will torture us in fire, forever?
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